Buddy Tips
Be There: Your presence is VERY important! Your buddy will need you and your team will need you. Please do everything possible to attend all games and practices.
Be On Time: Plan to arrive 15 minutes before practice/game. Most games last approximately one hour.
Know Your Player: Talk with family members and read your players bio. Talk with your player to find out what he or she likes, what elicits a smile, what he or she can do if encouraged and supported and what the cues are for you to back off.
Protect Your Player: Your role as a buddy involves being a friend, cheerleader, coach and helper. But, above all, you must be a protector. Be alert at all times to the location of the ball, base runners, other players, etc. so you can do what is necessary to ensure the safety of your athlete.
Dress and Equipment: Please wear your volunteer buddy shirt that will be provided for you. Be sure to bring a glove during baseball season. You will sometimes need to protect your player by deflecting balls that are hit toward the two of you. Your safety is important, too! Gloves are available if you need one, so please let your coach know.
Encourage Your Player's Ability and Independence: Remember... it is THEIR game! Do everything possible to encourage your athlete to be involved at his or her level of ability. Focus on what your player is able to do and recognize all positive efforts.
Share Your Concerns: Don't hesitate to ask for help if you need it. Talk with the coaches or YMCA staff if you have concerns or problems.
Be Confident; Some of the athletes express themselves easily, but for many this is very difficult. It may be hard sometimes to know how your athlete is feeling or if he or she appreciates the help you are trying to provide. All of us, including your player, appreciate your patience and your best effort to be helpful, even if this cannot be expressed.
Check Available Sources For Cancellation Announcements: When weather conditions/roads make play questionable, check the YMCA website or the YMCA Challenger Facebook page or call the weather line 816.360.3397. The coaches cannot call all players and buddies, so please assume responsibility for determining this information.
For more information or to become a buddy, contact Challenger@KansasCityYMCA.org.